Lets not underestimate sex

There is a tendency among some guys (especially nice guys) to claim that sex is not all that important. Steve asks "Am I the only guy in the entire world who actually thinks about things other than sex?" I used to be of the same opinion and in theory it does make sense.

Unfortunatelly it doesn't work that way in practice. In fact my previous relationship was at its highest points only after sexual encounters. After the first time it happened she actually called me in the middle of the night to talk for no reason whatsoever. After one other time she even became concerned that I might be attracted to other women. I think sex and physical contact in general really does form an additional bond that you would not normally have.

So my conclusion is that it is advisable to seek sex whenever possible, if not for enjoyment than at least for practical reasons. And it is enjoyable, I might add.